Name: Richard Coekin
Family: Married to Siân; four children, Charlotte (9), Rupert (7), Rhian (5), Johnny (3).
Ministry background: Trained at Moore College, Sydney, and Wycliffe Hall, Oxford; four years at St Mary’s, Manchester; appointed pastor of Dundonald Church, Wimbledon, in 1995, and has served as that church’s first full-time minister since it was planted in 1990.
Monthly Archives: July 2001
Pastors as ghetto blasters
Free to speak his mind
Couldn't Help Noticing
Lean on me
Couldn't Help Noticing
The slot car game they play in heaven
Couldn't Help Noticing
Evangelism: When to take the risk
Adams’s fearof the future
Couldn't Help Noticing
Diagnosing the past
Couldn't Help Noticing
Revelation and recovery: A wife’s story
Everyday Ministry
I knew practically nothing about homosexuality when my husband of 10 years told me the shocking truth that he would prefer tobe in a relationship with a man. He hadn’t ‘acted out’ or been unfaithful to me in practice but I wasn’t what he wanted. I felt like the poor consolation prize. Due to his Christian values he knew he wasn’t permitted what he really wanted, a gay relationship, so I was better than nothing. Prior to this, I had believed we were happily married. However, my husband was just acting the role of the devoted husband. It was a façade to hide the truth. His Christian life was also almost a sham. He went through the motions of being a committed Christian but in reality he was practically spiritually dead.