Thank you for the excellent article in Briefing #368 on fending off non-Christian men. The anonymous author left out one important heading from the 10 she listed: tell him. Unless you tell him the real reason, he will assume all sorts of incorrect ones.
In 1956, a young lady came to stay with our family, and we grew close. She said to me, “Our relationship can go no further because you are not a Christian”. I am eternally grateful to her for that. I was converted, engaged, married and ordained in that order, and this summer, we celebrate 50 very happy years together.